嗯，新年的天气似乎已开始褪去，天上下起的雨已经开始洗去大地上的热气，天气再次变化了。
这是个循环，季节性的循环，尽管大马没有国外的一年四季，天气依然变幻无常。
Emm, the weather during CNY is started to go and the the sky is started to rain to get rid of the heat. The weather is changing. This is a recycle, a seasonal recycle even if there is no such four seasons in Malaysia, but the weather keeps changing.
最近有太多的故事，想要在此作分享。
曾我还未忘记，先说说友情吧！
There are a lot of stories to be shared here. Before I forget it, let's talk about friendship.
我真的心怀感激，我能够在这个充满矛盾、复杂的世界上遇上与我频道相同的人。
朋友之间，不只是要频道相同，还要懂得适当的谦让。最基本的礼貌、尊重及信任都是维持友情中不能少的元素。
I sincerely appreciate that I met the peoples who are same channel with me in this contradicting and complicating world. It's not only about the issue of "channel" but there is humility among friends. The most basic courtesy, respect and trust are the main elements to maintain a friendship.
我们讨论的东西，上及天文地理，下及身边事物。
我们愿意互相倾听、包容、帮助、鼓励。
我在她身上学会了许多，最让我印象深刻应该就是学会大方。
函颖也是一位教会我大方的人。
以前的我把钱看得比较重，可是现在反而一点也不再计较。的确，不再计较这些身外物，人也变得轻松多了。
虽然我们之间不至于像家人般亲密，但你为我做的一切，我都不会忘记。
包括我不会忘记我一封简讯一个电话，你就会毫无考虑的答应我的请求。
那天早晨电话吵醒了你，还要求你特地驾车到我家载我和我妈出去，我真的很抱歉。
但你却二话不说，为了我的一个不情之请，改变了原本的计划与时间。
我真的很感动，因为不是每一位在身边的朋友都能够这样付出。当然，有你一位就真的很足够了。你我不是家人，不是男女朋友，但你却不断地帮助我，真的非常感谢。
Kar Hui, who was my primary school mate, also a person whom I can share her everything about my life. We used to discuss everything, perhaps astrology and geography. We are willing to listen, forgive, help and encourage each other. I have learnt so many things from her, including to be generous. It's true, I never ever care of those physical stuff such as money and I felt relax after I get rid of all those fusses. Although we are not close like family but I will never forget what you have done for me. I will not forget that you just simply promised to help me out because of a message or a call. I am sorry for awakening you on that morning and requesting for fetching me and my mother to town. You just promised me by changing your initial planned time and schedule and promised to take us up and finally you came. I felt so touch because I knew that not everyone around me can do this for me, even if it was not a big deal. And I felt satisfied and enough to have you as my friend, you always show your kindness to me though we are not family or couple.
谢谢德全那么的明白我，一直到今早起床，第一句想起的话就是你告诉过我的，就是那么的一句，让我心情变轻松了。你告诉我一切只需要时间，你能够明白我，这是我非常高兴的。
我喜欢能够倾听我的人，谢谢你们。
Darren, another person whom I would like to say thank you to. Thank you Darren and Ah Ball for listening to me last night. I keep repeating the same thing yet both of you were listening and giving me the most pertinently advice, I will appreciate it. Thanks for your understanding. The first sentence that came to my mind in this early of the morning when I woke up was what you told me last night, and it made my day. You told me everything has to depends on time and I need it, I need some times to accommodate the changes. This is great, and I like the person who can listen to me, once again, thanks.
其实我觉得我是个不能抱怨太多的人，因为我拥有的已经很多了，太充足了。
对于朋友，我不能够说我很有义气，我不知道如何去运用“义气”这个东西，我只知道在他们需要我的时候，我会在他们身边支持他们，尽我所能帮助他们，让最好的结果呈现。
I knew I couldn't keep blaming too much as I already possessed as much as I want, it is more than enough.
For friend, I couldn't be saying that I am very supportive, the only thing I knew is to support them, try my best to help them whenever they need me to have the best outcome.
我不喜欢吵架，翻脸，尽管朋友间发生了一些争执，我也希望一切可以被时间冲淡。
今天我突然的就说出了这样的一段话：
我们人生中一直都存在着遗憾。就像朋友，因为一些事情而不再联系，彼此的世界再也没有对方。这是一个永远存在的遗憾。或许在当时，眼中所看出来的一切都很让人生气，让人觉得自己可以失去这个朋友，但是我觉得当人到了七老八十，甚至变成一缕尘埃后，什么事情都变得微不足道了。回头看，可能会一笑置之，也可能会笑自己当初的傻气，但却笑不走那留下的遗憾。
I don't like argument and fell out, I hope that time will be the solution for all the problems rising up.
Today I quoted this:
There is regret that always exist in our life. Just like friend, they would not be friend anymore after some problems emerged, and this would regret them forever or for a life time. Perhaps it is annoying and infuriating at that time the problems rise up, and it makes people to decide they rather to lose this friend and it would not cause something bad. However, when we reached the old age, or when we left this world, only we realised that everything can be solved and it doesn't matter. Look back to our life, we may laugh at what we did, and the foolish decision we ever made, but we can't laugh to deny and wipe off the things made our life regretful.
我们人生说长不长，说短不短，为什么还要留下那么多的遗憾？世上那么多人，却让你结识到现在的朋友，终于经营起了之间的友情，却因为一些“小事”而断绝来往。
不值得。
Our life is not that long, but not that short as well. Why do we want to regret so much on ourselves? There are numerous peoples in this world, and you met your own friends, building and maintaining the current friendships and you just let them go at the end just because of some small matters.
It's not worth.
当然我也明白，不是每件事都可以大事化小，小事化无，但往往事情很多时候，可以利用很多种方法去避免的。如果真的不想让友情结束，人就变得不再计较那么多。
Of course I knew, not that everything can be forgave, and forgotten. However there is such a moment, we can have many ways to solve them. And if you hope to continue your friendship, you would not be so calculative.
但当然每个人的观念不一样，我是以朋友为准，其他的事情都可商量，毕竟我不想因为一些可以避免、可以被解决的事情而影响之间的友情。
But of course there are different opinions for different persons. For me I will rank my friends as the first, then go with any other things. I just don't want my friendships being influenced by some issues which could be avoided or overcome.
可能退一步海阔天空，只要让那一步，直到七老八十两个老朋友还是可以坐在一起对饮，那是人生中多么畅快的事？是好是坏，随着时间一切都过去了。只要不是杀人放火众叛亲离，是否一切争执都有希望被解决？
Perhaps you may step back one step and maybe because of this one step you took, the situation or the outcome could be changed. And two friends could still having their teas by sitting face to face to each other for many years later, and how good the feels are for having this scene? Good or bad, just let it be with the time pass. So long as your friend not murdering or betraying, is it true to say that everything could be solved?
Friendship isn't how you forget, but how you forgive.
Not how you listen, but how you understand.
Not how you seem but how you feel.
Not how you let go, but how you hold on!
我只希望我身边的朋友能够全部一起携手走到老，一天的朋友，一辈子的朋友。
尽管争执不是发生在我身上，我都希望而我也会尽最大努力去维持之间的感情。
或许我是多管闲事？我只能说，我只是不想我身边的朋友在人生中有多一个遗憾。
I just truthfully hope that all the friends around me can go through all the obstacles together as long as possible. Friend today, friend forever.
Although I do not have argument with my friends, but I hope and I will try my best to maintain the relationship among us and others.
Perhaps I am a busy body? Who'd care? The only thing I can say is, I don't want any of them around me to regret themselves.
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