By a blink
of eyes, it turned into 2017.
Every year
we do hope for the coming new year would be a better year as compared to the past
one year. Every year we are so exciting to join the crowd and count down for
new year regardless there are traffic congestion, crowded and sweating.
The night has
over, the city was surrounded by crowded, local and international, full of
noise and jubilation. Everyone was so exciting to welcome 2017. I was one of
them, sweating while waiting for the fireworks to witness the arrival of 2017.
2016 wasn’t
that good to me. I believe, neither to everyone. The main thing was that, I
have not saved enough monies throughout the year. I have totally no idea for my
spending in the past one year, I had tried my best to control my budget but
yet, all my monies gone. I was speechless when I saw the bank account figures
on the screen, felt regret of not doing well for the financial planning. I asked
myself the reason behind, and then I found out that there were so many things
that couldn’t be solved without money.
Money is
really powerful as it can make most of the things go smooth. It’s just like a
magic, turn everything out with a solution. Come to those situations, I have
nothing to do except for spending money to solve the problems. For example my
car, spending for maintenance and servicing, spending for buying a new side
mirror as a result of being stolen, spending for repairing and painting as a
result of crashing and etc.
On the
other hand, the monies also gone for spending on renewal insurance policy, renewal
licence, road tax and car insurance.
Come to the
next, I was spending on PTPTN repayment and credit card repayment. And then, it
will be those miscellaneous daily spending. Like petrol, breakfast lunch and
dinner, fine dine sometimes, birthday celebration, farewell party, and
travelling.
So, now I can
figure it out where did my monies go throughout the 2016. As what I can see,
most of my spending was on miscellaneous. Sometimes each person could spend up
to approximately RM100 for a dinner. Think that it might be worth to spend for socializing
but I realized that this concept would be wrong. Perhaps I should have more
control on this area of spending.
For wealth,
it was totally the worst year in my life.
For
friends, sometimes it could be challenging to maintain the relationships but we
still can manage to go through it. They are irreplaceable, since primary,
secondary school and college, as we have been going through a lot, they are the
one who are willing to take care of me and to understand me other than my
families.
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| With Kar Hui |
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| With Darren |
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| With Ball ball |
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| With HJ Bae |
For
families, our time of seeing each other was getting lesser and lesser. Although
there are only three of us but I found that it was hard to communicate between
us. I know most of the times the obstacle was from me. I locked myself inside
my heart and refused to talk to you guys. I rejected the concern and love you
have given out. It has been a long time where three of us hanging out together.
Having dinner together became a challenge to us. I felt helpless, can’t figure
out which was the best way to rescue the relationship.
For
partner, I am still being single throughout 2016. It’s ok as currently I am
more concern about my career and of course, monies. I believe that the right
person will be there only when I became a better person and by that time, both
of us will be more mature and be ready for the present of each other.
Nevertheless,
I am still being grateful that all my friends and families are healthy and
fine. Appreciate what I have, always work hard for what I want to have. I believe
that all the bad things and bad moments were over as time goes on.
Ever heard
of Pandora’s box? According to the classical mythology, all the evils and
miseries of the world were flew out from this box. Believe it or not, there is
always hope inside the box. Regardless of the sorrow, there is always hope
comes along, as long as you believe.
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| With gals, escape room |
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| With the healthy gang |
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| With the gang |
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| And another gang |
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| Girlss |
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| College gang |
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| NS gang - Wai Mun |
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| With NS gang |
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| With colleagues gang - Cotrip |
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| With Jenny - Lostworld |
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| With Yee Hui |
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| With Wen Nee |
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| With Zien Ying & Winnie |
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| With the drunk guy |
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| With le gang |
