Sunday, 5 November 2017

To King - Things to let you know

Dai Lou,

Didn’t manage to say goodbye to you on your last day in BDO and also to take the last photo in BDO.

You are a quiet person. I still remember the first time we had some deep conversation was at Ipoh hotel room during our very first trip. I kept asking you why you’d be so quiet so calm. I was curious and would like to know more about you. I don’t really believe if a person is quiet, because I can’t imagine how they going to release their emotion and stress by keeping the secret and everything inside their hearts. Soon I found out you have your own way to deal with all these.

You are also a low profile person and I am quite impressed by this personality. You would never show off to others on what you owned, your background or anything else. And even after we knew, you wouldn’t mind to share with us. You’ve invited us to your house in PD, having parties over there, took a short trip keeping us away from the city and stressful life. I have been learning quite a lot over there. I’ve learnt how to play snooker, how to ignite the flame by using fan (XD), how to swim, how to ride a jet ski and how to have fun with you guys.

PD 2017
I like your personality. Though you might not be talking much, but when you talk you got the point straight. I have told you the other day, the scene on how we first met each other in Amcorp, I still can clearly recall it. I am so so glad and lucky to join the team and know every one of you. I remember we didn’t talk much at first, we were so damn quiet during lunch, and everyone was busy looking at their phones. Slowly we had some simple and short conversation, and the team was getting closer with each other. Came to our first trip to Derrick’s hometown and Ipoh, staying with the flies inside your car, what a horrible experience we ever had. We had our “pillow talk” time in Ipoh hotel, talking our first impression to each other. Even though the time passed, I still can remember every moment we’ve been through.

Sitiawan 2015
Since then we were busy for our own life, been working every day and night, and finally came to the day I heard that you’ve resigned. It was expected, somehow I still feel upset on this. For the period I was in office, you will come over and “visit” me sometimes, and we will have something to talk about. I remember there was a time, you asked me the reason why I’d choose accounting, and then we started to recall the memories two years ago, that was the first engagement of us. The conversation was simple and straight forward, but the feeling at that moment was killing me. Just a second, my mood turned down and I could feel the heart broken feeling just because I realised I was forced to accept the fact of each of you are leaving.

Amcorp 2015
I knew it was predicted, just that when it turned to be a fact and I was forced to accept it, I can’t stand for the feeling. Anyhow I still keep my face smiling to you, because I don’t want you to realise how sad I was at that moment. All of the memories emerged at the same time.

Sunway 2015

PD 2016

PD 2016

Amcorp 2016

Penang 2016

Dai Lou, you are not just a colleague to me, you are more like an elder brother to all of us, always take care of us, being a kind and helpful brother. I am so glad to know you here. Being known that you found your loved one, I am so excited for you.

Dai Lou's birthday
I want to see you doing good and stay happily. Although we are no longer have chance to work together and you have upgraded to be my “ex-colleague”, I will still treat you as my Dai Lou. Thank you for everything we have gone through together, thanks for all the advices and helps in the past, thanks aunty and uncle and your brothers for welcoming us and taking care of us, thanks for sharing all the joyfulness and lastly thanks for being part of my memories.

I will miss you, please take good care of yourself and your loved one. We shall meet each other again in one day.

One day Dai Lou, forever Dai Lou.

Goodbye Dai Lou =)
P/S: I still keeping the maple from Japan. I really like it, thank you. <3 font="" nbsp=""> 


To Derrick - Nice to meet you

认识你快满三年,那么快又到了告别的时候。

在这些日子里,其实很感谢你曾经给予的任何帮助。

刚认识你的情形还记忆犹新,还是会不停出现在我脑海里。那天记起了你是驾着NissanLRT Station等我们。我们相识的第一JobEtika。不会忘记在我还没有车的日子里,你也愿意大老远载我回家。

其实你是个蛮有耐心,蛮细心的一个男生。欠缺的是一点对自己的信心,还有对这个世界的希望。我时常说你悲观,因为其实你没有察觉你抱怨的东西其实只是生活中的一点小事,笑笑挨过就好了,站出来看世界,这个世界依然美好。

难过的时候,有些事情看不开的时候,就让自己休息休息,不要紧抓着当下解决不了的事情烦恼,许多事情会随着时间流走,到最后总会有一个结果。无论结果是否自己想要的,它依然会成为过去的。

不要太刻意去烦恼爱情,它是个抽象的东西,终有一天你会遇到一位让你倾心而她也会对你有相同感觉的人。25岁是男生最应该拼事业的时候,把自己的前程放第一位,不会有人说你错的。

接下来就该想想自己以后想要的生活或是自己接下来想要做的事。想了就顶下决心让自己去实现。不要永远只是空想,你很明白必须要行动才会有结果。有时候小小的失败并不代表你要退缩,你必须要去解决问题面对失败再继续前进才会有结果。等到自己有成果的一天,把自己塑造成 一位可以让人依靠的人,而不是成为一个依靠别人的人。

你是个很善良的人。我觉得我遇见的你们都是一群很单纯简单的人。
过去的日子里真的很高兴能够很你们一起工作,一起度过那么多快乐的时光。

你觉得我乐观,其实很多时候我也觉得手头上的工作很难顶,但我知道我不是一个人,我还有你们,所以我还是可以很坦然的面对很艰难的工作。

其实生活中就是要寻找正确的态度,许多事情你改变不了,那就改变自己的心态。当你做到了这一点,你会发现世界很辽阔,和自己之前想的不一样。所以无论你遇到什么困难不开心,试着学会转换自己的心态,因此世界无论怎样,随着你心态的转变,依然是美丽的。

之前曾经讲过你,要辞职什么的就认真去做,不要整天纸上谈兵。不过当我听见你真的丢信时,其实心中还是有点失落。虽然经常酸你,但还是为你的决心和勇气小高兴了一下。

可能你曾经有后悔做了这个决定,但我想要说的是,不要去后悔自己做的任何一个决定,因为决定是没有对或错的,是看你自己怎样去完成你所做的决定。

最后,如果以后面对什么问题想要找人谈谈,无任欢迎。

最后最后,真的很感谢你曾经成为我的同事及朋友,我不会忘记过去我们一起经过的每一个时刻。

Gala dinner 2015 - Amcorp Team


Bangkok 2016

CNY 2017

大家一起加油,总而言之,要相信这个世界是美丽的。

Assistant Manager 2017


再见。 =)

Bye Derrick =)