Tuesday 3 January 2017

Warm welcome for 2017

By a blink of eyes, it turned into 2017.

Every year we do hope for the coming new year would be a better year as compared to the past one year. Every year we are so exciting to join the crowd and count down for new year regardless there are traffic congestion, crowded and sweating.

The night has over, the city was surrounded by crowded, local and international, full of noise and jubilation. Everyone was so exciting to welcome 2017. I was one of them, sweating while waiting for the fireworks to witness the arrival of 2017.

2016 wasn’t that good to me. I believe, neither to everyone. The main thing was that, I have not saved enough monies throughout the year. I have totally no idea for my spending in the past one year, I had tried my best to control my budget but yet, all my monies gone. I was speechless when I saw the bank account figures on the screen, felt regret of not doing well for the financial planning. I asked myself the reason behind, and then I found out that there were so many things that couldn’t be solved without money.

Money is really powerful as it can make most of the things go smooth. It’s just like a magic, turn everything out with a solution. Come to those situations, I have nothing to do except for spending money to solve the problems. For example my car, spending for maintenance and servicing, spending for buying a new side mirror as a result of being stolen, spending for repairing and painting as a result of crashing and etc.

On the other hand, the monies also gone for spending on renewal insurance policy, renewal licence, road tax and car insurance.

Come to the next, I was spending on PTPTN repayment and credit card repayment. And then, it will be those miscellaneous daily spending. Like petrol, breakfast lunch and dinner, fine dine sometimes, birthday celebration, farewell party, and travelling.

So, now I can figure it out where did my monies go throughout the 2016. As what I can see, most of my spending was on miscellaneous. Sometimes each person could spend up to approximately RM100 for a dinner. Think that it might be worth to spend for socializing but I realized that this concept would be wrong. Perhaps I should have more control on this area of spending.

For wealth, it was totally the worst year in my life.

For friends, sometimes it could be challenging to maintain the relationships but we still can manage to go through it. They are irreplaceable, since primary, secondary school and college, as we have been going through a lot, they are the one who are willing to take care of me and to understand me other than my families.

With Kar Hui

With Darren

With Ball ball

With HJ Bae

For families, our time of seeing each other was getting lesser and lesser. Although there are only three of us but I found that it was hard to communicate between us. I know most of the times the obstacle was from me. I locked myself inside my heart and refused to talk to you guys. I rejected the concern and love you have given out. It has been a long time where three of us hanging out together. Having dinner together became a challenge to us. I felt helpless, can’t figure out which was the best way to rescue the relationship.

For partner, I am still being single throughout 2016. It’s ok as currently I am more concern about my career and of course, monies. I believe that the right person will be there only when I became a better person and by that time, both of us will be more mature and be ready for the present of each other.

Nevertheless, I am still being grateful that all my friends and families are healthy and fine. Appreciate what I have, always work hard for what I want to have. I believe that all the bad things and bad moments were over as time goes on.

Ever heard of Pandora’s box? According to the classical mythology, all the evils and miseries of the world were flew out from this box. Believe it or not, there is always hope inside the box. Regardless of the sorrow, there is always hope comes along, as long as you believe.  

With gals, escape room

With the healthy gang

With the gang


And another gang

Girlss

College gang
NS gang - Wai Mun
With NS gang
With colleagues gang - Cotrip

With Jenny - Lostworld

With Yee Hui

With Wen Nee

With Zien Ying & Winnie


With the drunk guy

With le gang